I explain it plain and simple. Just like most people, I need help walking, that's why I use a cane. I have trouble lifting my arms so I ask for help. Everyone needs help once in a while. Kids love to be helpers.
July 30
What a wonderful grandparent you are for thinking so carefully about this! Explaining muscular dystrophy to a 6-year-old can feel tricky, but kids are often more resilient and understanding than we expect β especially when the explanation comes with love and honesty.
Here are some tips that may help:
- Keep it simple and Show Full Answer
What a wonderful grandparent you are for thinking so carefully about this! Explaining muscular dystrophy to a 6-year-old can feel tricky, but kids are often more resilient and understanding than we expect β especially when the explanation comes with love and honesty.
Here are some tips that may help:
- Keep it simple and body-focused β Try something like: "My muscles don't work as well as they used to, so sometimes it's harder for me to move around."
- Normalize the tools you use β If you use a wheelchair, walker, or braces, frame them positively: "This helps me get around so we can still spend time together!"
- Invite his questions β Let him know no question is a silly one. Kids feel safer when they're not shut out.
- Lead with joy β Share what you *can* do together. Laughter and connection are powerful messages to pass on.
- Be honest about hard days β You can say "Some days are tougher than others, but I always find something good in the day." As one myMDteam member shared about raising a child with muscular dystrophy: "Not all people in wheelchairs have lost all control. Raise your kids to be strong-hearted and laugh." That wisdom works both ways β including teaching grandchildren the same.
Your grandson is lucky to have someone modeling resilience and joy firsthand. That's a life lesson no classroom can teach.
July 27